Purpose: The Fuel for Your Goals
Goals are great, but purpose is the compass. Everyone can set a destination, but purpose guides you on a meaningful journey.
Hey Genius Speakers!
In my previous newsletters, I talked about setting goals?
Well, today we're diving into something even more important: purpose.
It's like having the best road map, but without a destination in mind, you're just driving around aimlessly.
Let me put in a different way.
Have you ever set a goal, only to find yourself losing motivation halfway through? Goals are important, but without a strong purpose driving them, they can feel empty.
So, let's talk about the difference between purpose and goals, what purpose really means, how to find it, and why it's such a big deal.
Difference between Purpose and Goals?
A purpose is the underlying reason or motivation behind your actions, while goals are specific objectives or targets you aim to achieve. Your purpose is the "why" that fuels your determination, and your goals are the "what" that you strive for.
What is a Purpose?
Purpose is what gets you out of bed in the morning with a smile on your face. It's the 'why' behind everything you do.
For instance, let's say your goal is to improve your communication skills. The purpose behind it might be to get ahead in your career or to connect better with others.
Here's a quote from Viktor Frankl, a wise guy who survived the Holocaust: "Those who have a 'why' to live, can bear with almost any 'how'."
Another example:
Imagine you're working with international clients, but you're struggling to understand them. Your purpose can be to develop your communication skills so you can do well in your job. Or maybe you're busting your butt to earn more money. Your purpose? To provide the best for your family.
How to Find a Purpose?
Finding your purpose requires self-reflection and asking yourself meaningful questions:
Identify your values and passions. What matters most to you? What ignites your enthusiasm and fills you with a sense of purpose?
Reflect on your life experiences. What challenges or obstacles have you faced that have shaped your perspective and motivated you to make a difference?
Think about the impact you want to make. How do you want to positively influence the world around you? What legacy do you wish to leave behind?
For example, if you have faced discrimination or witnessed injustice, your purpose could be to advocate for equality and social justice.
If you have overcome a personal struggle, your purpose might be to inspire and support others going through similar challenges.
You can have a different purpose at a different phrases in your life.
Mark Manson, the person who wrote "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck," puts it like this: "The purpose of life is not to be happy but to matter, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you lived at all."
Ask yourself some deep questions.
What makes you feel alive?
What gets you jumping out of bed in the morning?
What are you super passionate about?
Your purpose should give you butterflies – it should be something that really lights you up.
Final Thoughts
Having a clear purpose is like having a powerful internal compass. It guides your decisions, fuels your motivation, and helps you stay focused even when things get tough.
Don't underestimate the importance of purpose in achieving your goals and living a fulfilling life.
Now that you understand the difference between purpose and goals, take some time to explore your own purpose. The journey of self-discovery can be incredibly rewarding!
Your Task
Find your purpose for improving your communication/English speaking skills. Share your purpose in the comments below.
You can even prepare a speech and post it in the group.
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Best regards,
Abhishek & Team